It is a mandatory thing for our kids to take swimming lessons every summer. Knowing how to swim is a necessary life skill in my opinion, so our kids take lessons. For Deagan, this is great. For Kayden, however, this is pure torture. It is so funny how different their opinions are on swimming! Deagan is a fish, and Kayden is terrified of it.
We had some friends recommend a local pool to take lessons at, so we signed up. The classes were small, and the pool was shallow which is great for lessons. The kids could touch the whole way. Kayden had a great teacher. She was kind and patient. Deagan had a pretty intense teacher, but he seemed to respond well to him and his way of teaching. This teacher was intense though! People called him "Coach Chris," and he was the most intense swimming teacher I have ever met. He was very strict with the kids and was very loud. It was a little over bored in my opinion, but everyone else seemed to think he was the greatest thing.
As I mentioned Kayden does not like swimming, so even though he had a very kind teacher, he was terrified. He would scream and cry when his teacher tried to get him to swim and to put his head near the water. It got to the point where Coach Chris had had enough so he pulled Kayden out of the other teacher's arms and put him on his back and swam to the deep end with him! I was in shock! I didn't really think he was going to put Kayden in any danger, but this was just weird and kind of scary! He had Kayden swim with him and told him he wouldn't take him back until he stopped screaming. He then continued to swim around with Kayden on his back and went under water! He was being careful to not let Kayden fall off, but it was crazy. Looking back on it now, I should have said something, but the swim teacher was so intense that I thought he was going to pull me in too!
Kayden finally calmed down, and Coach Chris brought him back and warned Kayden that if he continued to cry during lessons that he would bring him back out into the deep end. Kayden never cried during lessons again. He didn't like them any more though, and HATED going! I contemplated just pulling him out, but I really feel its important for him to know how to swim, and we paid the money. Deagan was so kind and offered to sit with Kayden during lessons. Kayden's swim teacher was kind enough to say yes, and that how he finished his two weeks of lessons. By the last day or two, Kayden gained some courage and got into the pool without being asked too. He even went under water on his own! It was so neat to see the change in him.
Deagan had a great summer of swimming lessons, and became quite the little swimmer! After two sessions of lessons though, he decided that he knew how to swim and did not want to take lessons every again. He is so funny in that way because once he knows how to do something even a little bit, he doesn't want to do it anymore. Rest assured, he will be in lessons again next summer! :)
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| Deagan sitting with Kayden during lessons |